 | Always say “I love you”--no matter how much your children are in your face or acting out.
All adults have an awesome responsibility to the children we encounter.
They learn by modeling how we act.
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| Goal of parenting is to give roots and wings.
Build relationships, live by your values, create rituals, make memories.
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| Each child is unique. You are the expert on your child, but be open to accept feedback from others who interact with your child.
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| Parenting is not a popularity contest.
The parents job is to be a role model, provide structure,
be the anchor.
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| Learn about and understand the development stage your child is going through.
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| Provide consequences and responsibility.
For learning to occur there must be consequences, positive or negative.
Allow your children to experience the consequences of their actions.
Give validation for what you like and appreciate.
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| Communication
Learn to LISTEN.
“Check It Out” Often the message received is not the message that was sent--use active and reflective listening
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| Knowledge is power.
Know where your children are, who they are with. Learn about drugs and the internet. The more you know, the harder it is for them to fool you.
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| Build a relationship with your children.
Stay connected and make special time to enjoy them.
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| Take care of yourself, and of your marriage and relationships.
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| Have fun times; create memories.
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| Say “I Love You” often; no one can hear those word too often.
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