FOSTERING SELF-ESTEEM

1. Be positive with child.
2. Give unconditional love.
3. Use praise and encouragement--focus on positive.
4. Avoid labeling, name-calling.
5. Give responsibility; age appropriate chores (not tied to making money).
6. Provide positive experiences outside of the home.
7. Keep expectations realistic and age appropriate.
8. Be clear that the child is who he/she is, not us.
9. Surround child with positive people.
10. Acknowledge child's feelings (all feelings).
11. Listen to children--show interest.
12. Use self-talk and self-instruction. ("It's okay if I make a mistake; I can try again.")
13. Give children QUALITY/SPECIAL TIME.
14. 10 to 15 minutes a day; one-on-one (or as often as you can):